solution:
1. Start-run DCOMCNFG in the "component Services" dialog box, expand "component Services", "computer"my computer", in the "my computer" right-click the properties dialog box, click the "COM Security" tab, under "start and activate permissions", click "Edit restrictions", in the "start permissions" dialog box, add the users or groups you want to access to the "group or user name" list. In the Startup permissions dialog box, select your users and groups within the Group or user name framework. Under user permissions, in the allow column, select remote launch, and then click OK
2. Start-run, reach dos command line state, enter netsh firewall set Service RemoteAdmin enable (disable as unavailable)
prompt "OK" to indicate that the execution action is effective

3. Open Control Panel-Administrative tools, click Local Security Policy, select Local Policy-Security options, select Network access: sharing and Security Mode for Local accounts, set its value to Classic-Local users authenticate with their own identity, then go back to the dos command line and enter the following command:

wmic / node: [machine IP] / user: [administrator account name] / password: [password] process where (name='qq.exe') call terminate
the above sentence can shut down the qq on the remote control machine
where name='qq.exe' can also be written as another process name to see what kind of requirements you have, such as name='winword', etc.